Life is a process, so is the experience of Being.  You'll find life lessons that I live and learn from; I found that I always valued reading about people's process, not the just the outcome but the inner dialogue that controls each on of us...some times it's a good dialogue, for most it's a self-flogging mechanism...a practice that I took part in up until a year ago!??? Wow...so instead I found a way to practice Love and Joy...hopefully, you have too.